As we drove to school on Friday morning, Ashlynn shared the front seat with me. She looked at me and asked, "Mom, are you adjusted?" I considered her question, and then truthfully stated, "Yes, I think I am. What about you?" She hesitated for a minute and said, "I don't think so, I still feel like we are just visiting...you know...like we are on a fun vacation." We talked about some of the new things that are happening and about our new home. Teddy piped up from the back seat wanting to know why our park doesn't have a "general store...you know...like the lakehouse did." Alisa said, "I feel like we are just went to the lakehouse for the weekend...but stayed longer." We are all still adjusting to our new home...and with the pleasant memories we have from the lakehouse setting...I can say...it does kind of feel like that! However...we have added a few more "permanent twists" and we all have things we are learning. Yesterday, the changes hit Ted and I a little heavier than what we had felt before...it was our first weekend to stay put and just be...to absorb all the newness. We rested. We got a few more things accomplished that always accompany a move and a new address. We fellowshipped with new friends in their home. We learned our way around the area some more...and we are learning...there are still more things to learn and remember!
1. You have to always bring enough forms of id and proof of where you are living (lease works).
2. Many people just assume you know more than you do. We consider ourselves to be of some intelligence, but are having some difficult moments!
3. Don't throw away aluminum cans! You pay a deposit on them and in Mari's words, "If you throw them away, you may as well take a handful of dimes and flush them down the toilet!"
4. Your children will always surprise you with their choices and desires...in good ways!
5. Put yourself in other people's shoes...don't ever just point your finger and talk through a series of directions that don't make sense to a new person (we don't know what certain lingo means). Look at them in the eye and say, "Walk with me, I'll show you!"
6. It should never, ever be up to the new people to introduce themselves! If people are standing around looking unsure or lost...they are...and are not usually going to ask 9 different people for help.
7. GPS is a really neat tool!
8. New phones are fun to play with...until you try to change what city you want your weather to read. Your husband may re-consider the insurance plan he chose for phone replacement and be checking on the home owner's insurance to see what the cost is for replacement windows.
9. You really should keep ice cream on hand...and ingredients for baking. When you are gathered around the table as a family, good talks happen!
10. Laugh...or you may just cry.
11. People honk...even if the red light is not flashing...and we still aren't going to go...because red means red. We have out of state plates...just deal with it!
12. An hour difference in time...could mean your loved ones...might still be in bed in the morning...should you make a call OR could mean that we went to bed...should you make a call to us. We have been so tired!
13. Hugs are not optional during life-changing events! You need lots of them from a variety of people.
14. You must take time to spend with the Lord...or you will fall apart...every. single. time. "I can do all things...through Christ...who strengthens me."
15. Waking up at 3am...wide awake with lots of thoughts...is going to hurt later in the day!
16. A thankful heart...must be expressed in some way or another.